People come into your life for a reason
This morning on my way to the office, a car stopped not far from me. I saw Mrs Sylvie, the center co-ordinator, opened the window.
“Hey young lady, want to have a ride?”
“A sure, Merci beaucoup Madame!”
As we walked down the small path from the parking lot to the office I told her how time flies so quickly. It seems like yesterday when she picked me up at the airport 9 months ago. Now I am counting down the days before returning to the Netherlands.
I feel sad just by imagining that I have to leave such sweet people that I’ve known so well during my short stay here. I’ve been moving around so often, meet new people and then leave them, though I do not want to. I found a perfect article that fits my story well. To all my knew friends and family, which ever you are, thanks for being part of my life… and thanks for Henny for sharing this with me.
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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually. They may seem like a God send and they are. They are there for
the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the
relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is
that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The
prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant.
June 30th, 2007 at 4:18 pm
Bagus nih Eva…. Jadi betul ya, jodoh tuh diatur Allah, begitupun rizki, umur…….. Trus satu lagi, kata Qur’an juga Iqra! Gak cuma baca harafiah tapi juga baca lingkungan. Allah selalu menunjukkan pada kita yang seringkali kita malah gak sadar….!!!